"With this Theme, I Thee Wed"

Choosing the theme or style for your event is a fundamental part of the planning process.  Event design is very much like an orchestra- when all of the instruments blend together perfectly it creates a beautiful harmony, but if one instrument is out of tune- the entire piece falls flat.  You must be conscious of every element in your design.   The mood, atmosphere, music, food, guests- It all plays a crucial role in creating a the harmony for your day.  Below Mama has a few secrets to share to help you keep your instruments in tune!

The theme could be obvious, for example a beach theme, vineyard, or adventure theme.  But it could also be as subtle as a color scheme, or the style of an era or culture. The theme you choose will be your guideline throughout the planning process, but it will also offer perspective to your guests.  It is the one aspect of any event that makes it your own.  So, it is very important that you maintain a cohesiveness throughout so that your event flows from beginning to end leaving behind a memorable experience for all in attendance.  Below are some of Mama's tips to keep you on track. 

1. Focus on the scope.  Will your event be formal, or more casual?  Traditional or modern?  Classic or whimsical?  Winter wonderland, or a day at the beach?  The possibilities are endless. 
2. Be aware of the season. Planning to throw a Winter Wonderland in the Spring is probably a challenge you'd rather live without.  The season itself may also represent your theme.  For example, some planning an autumn wedding might focus on oranges and browns, acorns, and harvest and incorporate these design elements throughout the day. 
3. Select your color palette.   The colors you choose will determine the overall vibe for your event.  A deep burgundy might exude a feeling of class or elegance, where as a bright yellow might appear lighthearted and fun.  The colors you choose should be consistent with the season, but also illustrate your personality.  Please also make sure you choose colors that compliment each other- you may want to consult a color wheel if you are unsure about this.  
4. Don't go overboard.  Just because you are having a beach wedding, does not mean that everything you select should have to do with the sea.  Mama recommends the "less is more" mentality.  A few shells or star fish here and there can be magical, but you don't want to drown your guests in too much sand and sea. 
5. Be Consistent.  The theme of your wedding will narrow down many choices in your decor enabling a cohesiveness throughout.  You want to be sure everything from the dress, the centerpiece, the floral arrangements, even the menu all fit into your overall style.  

Do you have ideas or tips to share about planning a memorable yet cohesive affair?  Send us a comment, and tell Mama about it!