Oh, No She Didn't!

She did. In fact, it happens all to frequently if you ask Mama.  Wondering what I am talking about? I'm are talking about that bride.  You know, the one that makes the mistake of throwing all of the ettiquette rules out the window because this day is all about her, isn't it? Well, as most of you know - although your wedding day is one of the major milestones in your life- it is not all about you.  It is also about your spouse, the promises you are making to eachother, and let's not forget about the family and friends that are there to support these nuptials. 

However, in the fast paced world of wedding planning it seems the "Bridezilla Syndrome"  has become an epidemic.  Mama wants to be sure that you don't fall victim of this ever growing disease, so here are a few things to avoid to make sure you are not that bride!

• Do not be your worst enemy.  When you feel yourself starting to get overly stressed, or out of control- step out of the planning for a moment.  Close your eyes, take a deep breath, and remind yourself why you are doing this in the first place.
• Do not request monetary gifts.  As I mentioned last month in "Tact vs Tacky" it is in very poor taste to request cash on your invitations.  Let your guests decide what (if anything) they'd like to give you on your wedding day.
• Do not open cards or gifts at the reception.  If someone gives you a gift during your reception, kindly accept it with a thank you and place it aside.  You and your hubby to be should make time after the wedding (or sometimes after the honeymoon) to open the gifts.  *Be sure you keep a list of who gave you what so that you can thank them properly* 
• Do not spend too much time with only one guest.  Be sure that you spend a few minutes with each and every guest at your wedding reception. They have come here in your honor, make sure they feel welcome and appreicated. The best way to do this is the be breif, and visit every table.  If you want to spend extra time chatting with your best friends, wait until after you've seen everyone and then you can go back around to your favorites. 
• Do not seat battling relatives together.  Even if you have their best interest at heart and you are hoping this arrangment will somehow get them talking again- don't do it. If they can't get along, keep them apart. 
• Do not try to go it alone.  Even if you are a perfectionist- get over it.  There is no way you can do all of the planning on your own, so just accept that.  Allow your mother, you sisters, your bridesmaids or your mother in law pitch in if they want to help.  This is the last time they are going to fall over themselves for you anyway- so just take advantage of it!

Have you been to a wedding where the bride (or perhaps even the groom) fell victim of the Bridezilla Syndrome?  Send a comment and tell Mama about it!